"10 Steps To A
Successful Life"
by Lynn Robinson
Copyright © 1999-2002
1. MAKE YOUR INTUITION YOUR ALLY
How does your intuition
speak to you? Do you receive information in words, feelings, a body
sensation? Do you just know? Ask your intuition questions and pay
attention to the answers and act on the information you receive.
2. WHAT ARE YOU ENTHUSIASTIC ABOUT?
The root of the word
enthusiasm is entheos. It literally means "God Within." Just think, when
you feel enthusiastic about your dreams it means that God is speaking
through you and saying "yes" to your goals! The feeling of enthusiasm is
one of the ways your intuition speaks to you. What makes you excited,
happy, delighted? What do you look forward to each day? Do more of it!
3. BE CLEAR ABOUT YOUR GOALS
We are often quite clear about
what we don't want. Spend time thinking about what you do want. What does
your ideal life look like? Draw pictures or cut out scenes from magazines
that illustrate the life you want to create. Write in your journal,
envision. Spend time each day imagining your ideal life. Envision the
details of that life. Imagine you are living it now. What are you wearing?
What are you feeling? Who are the people around you? The power is within
your mind and heart to bring forth the new life you desire.
4. SPEND TIME IN PRAYER AND MEDITATION
Answers often come to
life's questions through self- reflection. Prayer and meditation are two
ways we have of slowing down enough to listen to the still, quiet voice of
our Higher Self. Remember that the answers don't always pop into your mind
fully formed as you meditate or pray. You may find them slowly evolving
into your consciousness over several days or weeks as you ask for insight.
5. CREATE POSITIVE SELF TALK
Pay attention to what you tell
yourself about yourself and your life. If the general tone is hopeful and
positive you feel better and are more optimistic. William James said, "The
greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings, by changing the
inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their
lives." It's easier to create a life you love when you give yourself
affirmative messages.
6. PRACTICE AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE
Research has shown that
the happiest people are the ones who have gratitude for all that they have
despite their circumstances. You don't have to postpone happiness until
you have achieved all your goals. Joy is an inside job. In the Talmud it
says, "In the world to come each of us will be called to account for all
the good things God put on this earth which we refused to enjoy." Learn to
appreciate the unfolding process of your life, not just the realization of
your dreams.
7. TAKE ACTION
People often get stuck because they can't
figure out how to get from Point A to Point Z. What is one thing you could
do that would be a next step? Take a class, talk to a friend, read a book
on a topic of interest, learn a new skill. Take action on what feels
exciting to you.
8. LOOK FOR COINCIDENCES AND SYNCHRONICITIES
It has been
said that coincidences are God's way of remaining anonymous. We often have
serendipity occurring in our lives as a way to show us we are on the right
path. As you trust your intuitive knowing you'll find these
synchronicities occurring more often.
9. KNOW THAT THERE WILL BE EBBS AND FLOWS
We often reach
success through a series of ups and downs. When you are in a "down" place
and feeling stuck, know that it won't last forever. Find some ways to
enjoy your life despite the lull and continue to focus on what you want.
10. TRUST IN DIVINE ORDER
Maybe you're beginning to feel as
Mother Theresa once did when she said, "I know God will not give me
anything I can't handle. I just wish that He didn't trust me so much." The
Universe has a perfect plan for your growth and unfolding as a human
being. As you learn to be guided by your intuition you're beginning to act
on this wisdom from the Universe.
Lynn Robinson, M.Ed., is one of the nation's leading experts on
the topic of intuition. Her most recent books include Compass of the
Soul: 52 Ways Intuition Can Guide You to the Life of Your Dreams
(Andrews McMeel, 2003) and Divine Intuition: Your Guide to Creating a
Life You Love (DK Books, 2001). Lynn is a popular and widely
recognized author and motivational speaker as well as a columnist and the
Intuition-At-Work Expert for iVillage.com. Her free monthly "Intuition
Newsletter" is available at her Web site, http://www.LynnRobinson.com.
© 2002 Lynn Robinson, M.Ed. All rights reserved in all media.